Love is

Youuu....

We are soon to celebrate our first 365 days of togetherness. Our bundle of joy will inshaAllah be delivered in two months time. That's the most highligted event in our life. The best of all. We have put aside our needs for the sake of him. My other half has started some plans for our first seed of love. Emergency fund for him. His education plan. His insurance plan. Alhamdulillah.

Marriage is a learning process. Have you ever heard this saying; experience is the best education. You don't have to be rich to get married. You just have to be ready to live a moderate life. To share almost everything with your partner. To ask permissions. To do everything together. To love you partner more than anything.

Sharing here means almost everything. In any conditions. Life will get better sooner or later. Believe that!

I remember the days when he just came back from Japan. We started everything from beginning.  We decided to find a rent house though i'm staying in johor. I'm holding on a principle that once you're married, find away to live just the of you. My husband bought a motorcycle. I already own  car. We decided that i will do the travel since we have to rent a hotel everytime he visited me in johor. I'm a fit driver before we discovered that we're expecting. Now, no longer! We're still working for eg tukar. Still trying and praying for a fast transfer before our sushi pops out.

Reminiscing the old good time, we moved into our new house without anything. Slowly, we bought tv and all other electrical appliances and kitchen tools. We bought a mattress. Soon after, we brought home the racks and all sorts of basic things. Alhamdulillah.

I remember i keep on praying for a baby once we are ready. We are not in rush. Allah knows everything. We found out that we are expecting after 5 and half months being married.. What a blessing.

House is almost complete with all basic needs. Now, we are focusing on emergency funds, baby needs and everything about him.

Alhamdulillah, i am blessed with a very good, futuristic kind hearted husband. May all good things turn to him. He slowly structures our family financial plan. He makes sure i put aside some amount of money for our emergency fund. He is the best gift from Allah s.w.t to me. The best ever. I wouldn't trade to anything.

Being married to him for a year makes me feel like a princess. I remember someone adviced me, jadi independent sikit.  My husband taught me not to since we're married. He made  sure everything is ready for me. From isi minyak kereta, top up touch n go and duit poket.

Ya Allah, bless him.

One day he came home from work. He told me one proverb shared by his chinese boss.

Rule in marriage:
No 1: your wife is always right
No 2: if you face any difficulties in marriage, return to the first rule.

Xo.

Happy advance 1st anniversary abang. We love you soo much. I pray to Allah so he will always guide you and grant the best for us through this marriage.