Wednesday, 20 September 2017

Irsyad

Assalamualaikum.

Wow lamanya tak berblog. Let me introduce to you our seed of love.


Muhammad irsysd Fateh bin Muhammad Fahmi
Born via vacuum delivery at Columbia Asia Hospital Taiping
Born on 5th of July 2017 at 2.13 a.m



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Friday, 21 April 2017

Love is

Youuu....

We are soon to celebrate our first 365 days of togetherness. Our bundle of joy will inshaAllah be delivered in two months time. That's the most highligted event in our life. The best of all. We have put aside our needs for the sake of him. My other half has started some plans for our first seed of love. Emergency fund for him. His education plan. His insurance plan. Alhamdulillah.

Marriage is a learning process. Have you ever heard this saying; experience is the best education. You don't have to be rich to get married. You just have to be ready to live a moderate life. To share almost everything with your partner. To ask permissions. To do everything together. To love you partner more than anything.

Sharing here means almost everything. In any conditions. Life will get better sooner or later. Believe that!

I remember the days when he just came back from Japan. We started everything from beginning.  We decided to find a rent house though i'm staying in johor. I'm holding on a principle that once you're married, find away to live just the of you. My husband bought a motorcycle. I already own  car. We decided that i will do the travel since we have to rent a hotel everytime he visited me in johor. I'm a fit driver before we discovered that we're expecting. Now, no longer! We're still working for eg tukar. Still trying and praying for a fast transfer before our sushi pops out.

Reminiscing the old good time, we moved into our new house without anything. Slowly, we bought tv and all other electrical appliances and kitchen tools. We bought a mattress. Soon after, we brought home the racks and all sorts of basic things. Alhamdulillah.

I remember i keep on praying for a baby once we are ready. We are not in rush. Allah knows everything. We found out that we are expecting after 5 and half months being married.. What a blessing.

House is almost complete with all basic needs. Now, we are focusing on emergency funds, baby needs and everything about him.

Alhamdulillah, i am blessed with a very good, futuristic kind hearted husband. May all good things turn to him. He slowly structures our family financial plan. He makes sure i put aside some amount of money for our emergency fund. He is the best gift from Allah s.w.t to me. The best ever. I wouldn't trade to anything.

Being married to him for a year makes me feel like a princess. I remember someone adviced me, jadi independent sikit.  My husband taught me not to since we're married. He made  sure everything is ready for me. From isi minyak kereta, top up touch n go and duit poket.

Ya Allah, bless him.

One day he came home from work. He told me one proverb shared by his chinese boss.

Rule in marriage:
No 1: your wife is always right
No 2: if you face any difficulties in marriage, return to the first rule.

Xo.

Happy advance 1st anniversary abang. We love you soo much. I pray to Allah so he will always guide you and grant the best for us through this marriage.





Thursday, 13 April 2017

Powergold

Assalamualaikum,

The mojo has regained from it's long unconciousness.

If anyone followed my husband's instagram, you would know that we already started collecting physical gold bar since before we got married. Sometime in 2015, he introduced powergold to me and he started to invest on gold from afar. He bought and let me keep. Hihi. Trust is also gold.

One fine day, we decided to upgrade our membership to stockist after reviewing the benifit like If we purchased, we will get some extra cash and once the amount is enough, we could transfer it into our account.

We managed to convert our extra money each month into gold for a few months. I received mahar in dinar from him.. That's the best part of all.

In powergold system, you will get the physical gold once you purchased. Fret not, you can keep it in bank or any places like arrahnu pos ekspress. Make sure it's a licensed place. You just have to pay the fee and worry no more. Boleh pajak. Don't spend the money for shopping purpose. Keep it in asb and do tbe rolling bussiness. Read up and you will understand my point clearly. If youre not asb geek, keep the money in tabung haji. Easy said, put somewhere with divident. MLM jangan!!

What's the purpose of telling the whole world we have converted our extra pocket money to gold? I'm sharing to raise our youth's awareness.

We were late to realize all this crappy things. In my case, i couldnt thank enough to my other half coz he read a lot and he learn so fast.

Start now. Buy your first gold. Tak rugi ikat perut. Do some reading and learn how to do the rolling. You will know why the rich people keep their money in physical gold. There must be a reason. Uncover it.

Xo.




Tuesday, 11 April 2017

We are expecting

Assalamualaikum,

I've been ignoring this small world of mine since a few years ago. Just a few days ago i realized i must wipe off the dust and  spiderwebs and start writing again.

Did you know that we're expecting? I bet everyone knows it. I'm yes a loud kind of person. I can't stay quiet without sharing . Alhamdulillah. After 5 months plus, Allah finally grated our prayer to have our first seed of love.

We're now in second trimester. Alhamdulillah. Let's not talk about the downs in the first trimester coz it's horrible i just wanted to forget all those experiences. But, one thing to highlight, Allah s.w.t eased our journey though we're miles away from our hero. Yuppp, i'm still in johor and still hoping to receive the good news soon enough. We need our hero but of course, Allah s.w.t knows better. He made us through this safe and sound because he knows we are capable. I must and will always try to be positive no matter what's the upcoming result is. The eg tukar result will be out in a month plus. Please pray for us. We truly appreciate your sincere prayers.

Second trimester,
I still in awe. Wondering how fast time flies. It feels like yesterday i peed on three different pregnancy tests and two red lines appeared. Hihi. Alhamdulillah. I spent a total of RM 150++ just to make sure it's true. I went for my first ultrasound alone just to ensure that there's no error. The first person to know this was of course my other half. 😎😎

No more nausea and my appetite has slowly improving. We (baby and mama) have gained 7 kgs in this 6 months. 47kg syahira. Yeayyy. Baby is doing good and active. I have no idea what he's actually doing inside but he's been kicking my belly days  and nights since we're entering 2nd trimester. Are you kicking or punching mtmy belly, baby? From my reading in fb, he wants to acknowledge his presence. Baby, your father is the most happiest person on earth. He never fails to recite verses of the Holy Quran everytime we meet up (every weekend act) 😂😂. Yes i know i'm clingy. I won't penalize my baby if he's born clingy like me.

Now that we have only two weeks to welcome the third trimester, we have started to consider a few places to deliver our first born. Baby's stuffs are ready. I've been doing the shop till drop activity since we're in the first trimester. Overexcited mom to be yeahh.

Okay, it's time to end this reopening speech. Xo,

21 weeks gestation.