what's the plan? tell me

assalamualaikum,

hamboi kau plan sampai xhengat.

planning. it's a good thing but it could be the worst thing in someone's life. learn how to stop being obsessive.

i write based on an experience (definitely not my experience).

she is a woman who is so obsess with life planning.

she planned everything from A to Z. ever since she was a university student, she had started planning her life. everything. her life partner. her children's name. her financial status. her dream husband. it's definitely a wow because she was definitely an organized person. she knew what she should do and what her aim in life. to conclude, she knew herself well.

but, what happened when her dreams did not come true?

she gave up her life. she said things should be like this not like that.

i was talking to my mak and sisters when suddenly we came across to this topic. this a superb sensitive topic especially to the ladies. most of us live in a dream land. we have lotsa plans and dreams to achieve but with less action, we actually put everything into the drain. it's a waste of time to plan things without taking action.

i personally think, it's a good thing to crack our head to plan our life. at least, we have a guidance direction when we really need it. at least, we know what we want and what we should do next after we have achieved one level in our life.

 if you ask me, i, myself, live in a dream world. i have so many dreams in my waiting list. when i was in secondary school, i dreamed to be a doctor. i planned to go to overseas. everyday, during Ramadan, i would read the middle pages of Malay newspaper. hihi. i would read and adore those who send their wishes from abroad wishing Happy Eid Mubarak. I wanted to do the same thing. I wanted to touch the icy cold snow. sadly, my plan did not come true coz Allah has  a better plan for me. I adored people who stepped into marriage life at a very young age. I wished I could have the same experience. In my plan, I am going to get married before I turn 23. hihihi. gain, my plan did not come true. according to my plan, by this year, i am no longer a single lady. haha

why should i rewind my broken plans? haha

I shouldn't.

the message from all the above story is just simple. We plan and Allah is the best of planners. we plan but not all will come true. it's a good thing to plan but please remember that we are no one to decide which will come true and which will not come true. therefore, let's put our trust in Allah.

you might want a rich handsome husband, but you never know what Allah has decided for you. Ask from him if you really want what you have planned and tajdid niat.

kalau niat ke laut, memang ke laut la.

one more example;

you want to get married to a rich man. you get what you want. but, your in laws are not the type that you wish you will get and face for the entire of your life. you question yourself why you are the chosen one to have to face such problem.

not everything we wish we will get in life. be grateful! you get your dream man, in return, you must try to accept all the mishaps and weaknesses of the man and your in laws.

my sisters are getting married soon! so, everyday, i would be listening to tazkirah on marriage life. its either that or be a responsible daughter even after you get married. haha

sebenarnya, moral of the story is belajar unruk bersyukur dengan apa yang kita ada/dapat je pun.huhu. melalut.

while they are thinking about weddings and marriage, this single lady is currently cracking her head thinking of money. haha. my plan to find a part time job got rejected by Puan Sri. for now;

till then, 

>penganggur 2 bulan.<